So, its September, you’ve spent the summer earning lots of money so you can afford the next step- moving out into the big, bag student-world. I was (along with a lot of people) pretty worried about the prospect of living with a lot of people I’d never met before, for the year. And the Universities know this! And the last thing they want is for students to be unhappy and not get along with people in hall. That’s why when you fill out forms for accommodation it will ask stuff like hobbies, interests etc, so they can put you with people you’ll probably get along with. But, besides that. Here’s the pitch.
Its the morning of the day you move out, the car’s packed up with all your belongings and you’re about to head out to face your destiny. So here’s a few tips that I found from The Student Room – a wikipedia-type resource on Uni-Life, that might help as you take your first step into the big bad world of Life in Halls.
Keep an open mind
Just because you enjoyed lots and lots and lots of heavy metal at full volume at home and through high school, the people around you might not exactly share the same taste, and since quite a few universities still like to put fresher’s in shared rooms, your room mate especially might not agree! I do remember one evening after dinner one of the guys down the hall coming in and putting on some very bass-y house music and turning my subwoofer waaaay up. After about 45 seconds I had about 10 people at my door…Maybe not the best way to get to know people, especially when their anger is directed at you.. University is all about new experiences, learning not only academically but socially as well. When I went to university, I had a very limited taste in music, I liked acoustic, rock, and bit of classical. While I was able to find people who had a similar taste to me, by the time I came home at Christmas, it had changed a lot, before I’d never really listen to dance music, and I don’t mind it now. Just be aware that Uni will change things about you. Its the beauty of it!
Prop your door open.
When you get there, get into your room, let you parents do the parental thing, then once they’ve gone, get some ‘general’ listening music on the go (it depends what is at the time, for me, it was KT Tunstall- hello! She’s from St Andrews! and since it was the summer of Indie music, the Fratellis, the Kooks etc) and prop your door open. When people around you are moving in, instead of them coming in and it being all awkward ‘Hi… I’m… um….’ it might start ‘Wow! I love that song! Oh Hi! I’m…’ And before you know it, you’ve got a friend for life, or for the rest of the day at least! The people you meet at university are some of the people you will know for the rest of your life. Once you’re all unpacked, have a little wander down your hall/corridor, and pop your head around the doors and say Hi to people. My ice-breaker (and this is in NO way recommended- see later, the section on “alcohol and 9am’s do not mix”- but since it’s freshers week…) was a crate of beer. FW in hall will consist of a lot gatherings of people in rooms, listening to music, talking about their summers, just getting to know each other, and when you walk into one of these rooms with a few beers, it makes a little bit easier!
The day after the night before
While, you’re getting all philosophical and clutching your head, pulling on some jeans because someone has promised to leap into the harbour and you don’t want to miss that, (I’ll get the video on YouTube at some point…) take 5 minutes out, and call your parents. They will have will have stayed up all night with worry, if its going good, tell them. All they want to know is that you are fine, and not in some gutter somewhere!
Freshers Week- time to party (note to parents- what you don’t know can’t hurt you! So look away now!)
You will find that the University will have arranged all sorts of stuff throughout FW and your hall will probably do also. Whether it’s entertainment at the Union- the university’s very own massive pub- which sells Coke to all you underagers (and when I say underager I include myself. If you’re not 18 and are caught drinking in St Andrews Union for example, you will get banned for 6 months- that’s a lot of bopping to miss out on!) or walking tours of town or the University departments, there will be SO much to do, for that one week the words ‘i’m so bored’ will not be known in your vocabulary. Just dive in! I can remember on the first night, our hall arranged a ‘3-legged-pub-crawl’ ending at the Union where we partied the night away- it was AWESOME! You’ll also find that your department will put stuff on to. The Physics dept did a quiz so we could all get to know each other, and also a lot of the lecturers were on hand to answer any questions about the coming week that we may have. Getting back to the partying etc, our hall put on a ceilidh (pronounced kay-lee) one night, which is for all of you who have not been to Scotland, its a night of dancing to Scottish music- its truly awesome. No offence to our friends over the pond, but there is nothing funnier than teaching some Texans how to ceilidh dance! During the week, between attending Sports Fayres, Society fayres (which I’ll come back to) the university will probably also put on seminars on stuff like how to study well, take notes in lectures etc- these are like gold. They are well worth dragging your butt out of bed for. I went to one with a few people from hall, and sitting next to me was a girl I’d never met in a life, who I just happened to say ‘Hi’ to, just happened to be in my Physics class and we got talking and haven’t really stopped since, so much so, we’re getting a flat next year. FW is about getting to know as many people as possible! The possibilities are endless!
Matriculation
If there’s one part of Freshers Week that isn’t about socialising or getting drunk, it’s matriculating. Each university will be different, but it will probably involve seeing your advisor of studies, proving to the university that you will (or have) paid your fees, registering with your doctor and picking up your ID card. For me, it meant going to see my advisor, (and being me I got one of the early spots) and after getting the paper work from him, I was able to matriculate quite fast and with ease. For some people, who didn’t get the paper work from their entrants park sent back in time, or their finances sorted, it did result in a few people outside Younger Hall making some angry phone calls… After all that, you are officially a student of the University, and can call home to proclaim such a fact!
So, its the end of the week, you’ve now got a million and one friends, a slightly higher alcohol intolerance, and butterflies in your stomach which tell you one thing- CLASSES START TOMORROW! Then, the real excitement begins.